Are same day appointments available?
Yes, but same day appointments may not always be available. It is best to schedule one to two days or more in advance to reserve your desired appointment time. I usually do no more than two appointments in a day in order to focus my undivided attention and energy on you and for overall health. I prefer quality over quantity and see only a select few gentlemen. For same day appointments, I usually require at least 2-3 hours notice, perhaps more if you request outcall. I do have other things going on and cannot always drop everything at a moments notice. Please, don't expect me to be ready any sooner than in 1 hour. Don't make your inability to plan ahead an inconvenience to me. Rushing to prepare with a moments notice is not beneficial to me or your session.
Do you offer outcall or incall?
I offer outcall appointments for all sessions (this means I will come to your home or hotel room) and I also offer incall appointments for all sessions except the Couple's Romantic Getaway and I prefer that the Overnight Sensation also be outcall.
Most providers charge extra for outcall, do you?
Yes, I do, however I only charge a $20 outcall fee. (others charge $40-$50 flat-rate) This nominal fee is for packing up everything needed, putting it in my car, and driving time and fuel. The $20 is for first 25 miles round-trip. If I drive further, I will then ask for an additional gas allowance/ driving fee up to $50. I will drive up to one hour each way. You will be billed any additional fees I incur to see you, such as toll roads, valet, bellman service or parking, etc. See my outcall Service Area. An approximate rule of thumb is $10 for the first 5 miles and $0.50 per mile thereafter.
Where do you provide incall and how far will you drive for outcall?
My incall location is in the upscale community of Lake Forest (South OC) in an apartment home. I will drive up to one hour each way. See my outcall area.
What hours/days are you available?
Typically I am available from 1pm to 11pm, daily, except major holidays and some others. The latest appointment is normally at 11pm,. If you request an appointment beyond midnight, I will require an additional $20 as a convenience fee to work outside my normal hours. Appointments are only made during the hours of 1-11pm. Sorry, but I do not take calls or texts outside those hours. I do take Sundays off frequently or work only the later half of my schedule.
What can I expect when I come to you?
Click here for more information about my incall location.
What will you bring for my outcall session?
For outcall I will bring a soft, comfortable massage table, clean linens, massage lotion/oil blend, essential oils (fragrant plant extracts), soft ambient music, and if requested, imported incense and holder, candles, or lingerie. For the Evening of Pampering, I will also bring manicure and pedicure supplies, many quality spa products including bubble bath, bath gel and a pouf, shampoo, a gentle exfoliating facial cleanser, purifying clay mask, facial moisturizers, foot lotion, salts and essential oils for soaking your feet and a massaging foot bath. If you are requesting the Couple's Romantic Getaway I will bring the items listed on that session page.
I am intrigued by your sessions. Why don't other providers offer what you do?
Every bodywork provider has their own style. Personally, I am a romantic. I designed these unique sessions specifically for upscale clientele who desire more than what is available currently and that enjoys gentle, loving companionship and pampering. Usually, only fine resorts and day spas offer some of these indulgent spa treatments, but they do not provide the intimacy and companionship I do. I believe any woman who knows how to please a man should pamper her lover at least on occasion (and vice-versa). Unfortunately, that is not the case in this rushed world where couples don't take the time to nurture a relationship with quality time, intimacy, and romance. In fact, many don't even know where to begin. No wonder so many relationships don't last! For many others, we don't have a relationship and therefore don't get to enjoy intimacy often or in the way we would like to. With me, for a short time, I take you away to a soothing and caring experience that usually only loving couples get to delight in.
Who is your ideal client?
The lavish spa experiences are for gentlemen with discriminative tastes who appreciate quality and luxury. I prefer kind gentlemen over 25 y.o. that are polite, patient, and well mannered, who know how to treat a lady with respect. I also provide sessions for caring couples that would like to treat their significant other to a very special, loving evening. Read what some of my clients have said about my sessions here. Clients need to be open and honest during screening, which normally includes having verifiable references with other provider(s). Remember, screening is completely normal for any providers, as our safety is important. A gentleman would respect and even appreciate that, and would not try to skirt away from full screening with excuses or redirection or other dishonest tactics. I always respect your discretion and would never impose upon it. Please red the etiquette page to learn how to be an ideal client and make the most of your experience.
I am new to the types of sessions you provide. Can you offer some tips to a newbie?
I sure can! I am here to make this process easy and painless for you and I am sweet, kind and gentle and have a calming presence, which makes the process less intimidating and make you at ease. (Clients tell me they are quickly relaxed in my presence.) I am happy to assist you. That's why I wrote this website. It is rich with information to help you make an informed decision as to what I provide, who I am, and how I operate. I suggest you start with the Etiquette page for information on proper behavior before, during, and after your session, as well as some do's and don'ts. This FAQs page also has a good deal of info and answers. You can also take a look at the contact me page for some details on booking your session. Feel free to browse the other pages too.
What type of massage do you provide?
I provide FBSM or therapeutic massage only. For sensual massage, mutual touch is fine, but please allow me to focus on your massage and take care of you. I delight in indulging your senses and assure you that you'll be satisfied. Please refer to disclaimer:
Do you provide escort service or 'full service'?
No. Sorry, I do not provide full service, BJ or GFE, etc. I provide sensual or therapeutic bodywork only, as well as cuddling sessions and fantasy. (See sessions) Sorry, there are no exceptions, so please don't ask. If you are seeking this type of service, then I am not the right provider for you. I appreciate you respecting my boundaries. Please see answer above.
Do you offer role play or accept requests for lingerie/ costumes?
Yes. If you enjoy role playing, fetishes, domme, feminization, sissy play, latex, toys, videos, etcetera, I am open to your desires. I have lovely soft feet and stockings for your foot fetishes and I don't mind if you want to bring toys for you or any costumes for you or me to wear. (I have a limited amount of toys). I am open minded and discreet about your desires and don't judge you. Please be comfortable and express anything you have in mind. If you want me to wear something special, please let me know at the time of booking so I can dress in it or bring it with me. If you do not make a request, I will dress in comfortable lingerie that suits my mood.
What are the donations for your sessions?
My signature flagship session, the Ultimate Evening of Pampering is $760. It is worth every penny and beats what you'd pay for similar services in a luxury spa or resort, where sweet, sexy companionship is not offered. Prices are all-inclusive. There are no extra costs or surprise payments and absolutely no mean looking guy lurking behind a door to intimidate you and take your money. Please see Sessions and Donations for other sessions. Donations are not negotiable, so please don't ask. That's disrespectful of my time and I may lead me to choose to no longer have contact with you. I do have some discounts, however. See them here.
Do you require any deposits?
In some cases I do. Please see this page for information regarding deposits.
In what form do you accept donations?
I generally accept dead presidents only. It is customary to leave the donation on a table, with or without an envelope. If you absolutely cannot bring cash, the ONLY exception is Paxful, however, if you are using this alternative method, you must inform me at the time of booking and the full payment must be made ahead of time before your appointment is solid. More about that here.
Is tipping allowed or required?
Yes, tipping is allowed, however, it is not required. You may choose to tip because you appreciate our time together, because the session exceeded your expectations, or I was generous with my time, etc.. I appreciate it very much when my generosity and extra efforts are reciprocated, so thank you in advance for your consideration and thoughtfulness.
For outcall, should I have anything here for you to eat or drink? (This especially applies to the longer sessions)
To drink, I enjoy having fruit juice or champagne with cranberry juice, ["Hibiscus"] but only if you're drinking too. But most importantly ...bottled drinking water. I also like snacks like chocolate covered strawberries, grapes, berries, or other fruits. Cheese and crackers, and maybe smoked salmon are also nice snacks. Granola or nutrition bars are very welcomed (think healthy, usually. Gourmet chocolates are also a favorite, especially from See's Candies. Surprise me! You may, of course, bring any items for incall too.
Can I get you a gift? What do you like?
If you would like to share your appreciation, you may partake in a ceremony similar to the Tantric ritual, "Goddess Worship". This ceremony takes place after the Goddess has shared her heart and home and brought you to a place of bliss. Worship may come in the form of a massage or foot rub, the recital of a poem or a gift. To see what gifts I like, check out my Wish List.
What hotel would you recommend for our time together?
If you are indulging in the Evening of Pampering, Bath and Massage, or Couple's Romantic Getaway sessions, I recommend getting a hotel with a hot tub to get the most out of your experience. (There's room enough for both of us in a large tub...wink.) I have compiled a list of hotels with whirlpool tubs in Southern California Metro that you will find helpful. Of course, you may choose to search on your own for a suitable hotel. If you come across a good one that I don't have listed, please send me a link by email. Sorry, my tub is not large enough for two but can accommodate you and lots of bubbles.
Can I see any pictures of you?
Sure, just go to the 'Gallery' page. The pictures you see on my site are recent. I am often told that I look better in person or that the pictures don't do me justice. By the way, I absoluetely will not send you nude photos, so please don't ask.
Why can't I just pay whatever the hell I want?
The rates are comensurate with the session offered, not with the value you may deem them to be or the contents of your wallet. Do not attempt to insult me with bargaining. This is not a flea market business. This or any other insult will result in you being blocked and not receiving a session with me at any time. I am one of the extremely few age 50+ pampering providers in OC, so I will not be so replaceable as you may think. If you don't value me, then I am not the right provider for you and likely no provider is, as all providers deserve respect unless and until the disrespect you.
Do you have any reviews?
I sure do. You can read client comments sent to me by my previous clients. I have posted them on this page. I have reviews at The Erotic Review. Want to send in a review? Just email it to me.
Can you accompany me for an event or for travel?
Yes, I can also accompany you for an evening on the town or dinner date. If I have previously spent time with you, I may consider being your travel companion too. Perhaps a weekend retreat in So. California will do the trick or a longer exotic getaway. I can also come to your town. I have discounted daily, weekend and week long donations. Please inquire for more information on this subject.
I have allergies, do you have any pets?
Yes, I have a long-haired cat and several birds. If this bothers you, I can come to your home. I can also clean for you, such as vacuuming carpet and furniture before your arrival. Please let me know if this will suffice. The linens are clean and you should not expect any allergic reactions while on the massage table, unless you are really sensitive. I have a large air purifier next to the birds and my robot vacuum goes over the floors often. My cat spends almost no time in the room where the massage table is. She does, however, spend almost all her time on my bed where I do the cuddle sessions, but I clean my bedding often, and for that session, a sheet is put on the bedspread and a fresh pillow case is used for you.
What is Tantra?
Clients sometimes ask me what Tantra is. In a nutshell it is "to experience spiritual ecstasy". I have read nearly a half of a large book only, but since I am not a Dakini (Tantra goddess) I know very little on this topic, so I recommend doing a search on the subject to draw your own conclusions.
How do I schedule an appointment for a session with you?
Please read this page for information about scheduling your appointment.
If you do not see an answer you are seeking, don't hesitate to give me a call at *82- 949-229-2327
